I don't think there is a direct equivalent, really. Shaming a man by telling him he is not masculine/too feminine is effective because masculine traits are valued more than feminine ones. Sadly.
A woman will tend to get praise for being 'one of the boys' and doing stereotypically masculine things (even though that's not an easy role either; ask any woman working in STEM). Men still get shamed for painting their nails or being into make-up.
Some leadership roles (I've only had one female CEO but she was great)
Hospitality
Charity work
Teaching
I could probably think of more. Urban design. Basically anywhere that requires considering humans, as opposed to cold technical design like.. designing network cable runs in an office building for example.
I could be wrong here, but as a man those are areas that I personally really appreciate feminine qualities.