I was in the psych ward in the waiting room one day. In psych wards, they get you a room faster if you're hostile or acting erratic, whether or not that was anyone's intention. So this guy decided his way into a room is to do the R word on someone, and he chooses me. I definitely noped but it's not like I could scatter.
That moment when stuff like this is part of the experience and they wonder why their plan of "maybe people will call in" increasingly fails. Not as scary though as the fact the Rochester Lilac Festival was right outside the hospital at the time, which meant if I had left the place on time, I would've walked right out into an active festival and felt bad about being there as a result.
The question addressed "kinky fucks", it never said "talk about a time you were in the process of being kinky". That's what I was going by, that and the interpretation that "kinky fucks" referred to people who got out of a situation that involved a sexual encounter. You know, like how on AskReddit people often stylize who they're addressing.
Jesus, did people just think the "remember the human" rule from Reddit was worth doing away with when migrating to Lemmy?
Forget it, I'm removing what I said here if peoples' norms are so needy that they can't be sensitive to an anecdote about violation on a post that clearly asks people what they did not consent to. I screenshotted the answer and will give the screenshot to anyone who asks. This place is like the new Imgur.
Basically the middle part of the anecdote I explained here, as I had no way of knowing OP here (who hasn’t stepped in) was talking only about things we noped to in the context of seeking out kinky activities (despite not fully specifying that) and/or exclusively by people who are kinky in the specific sense that they do that for a living. When I read the title, I read it in the stylized way you might on AskReddit (maybe don’t start off a question with “kinky fucks”) which I also had come from and didn’t expect so much sidestepping for such a thing opened up about (Rectalingus? Really?).