First date with a girl: I open the car door for her when I pick her up. As she gets in, she hooks a hoop earing on the corner of the door and rips it out of her ear. The next 6 hours are getting her through ER to get stitched up.
Funny enough, I did get a second date and we hung out for about a year after that.
As a guy who does woodwork, and other DIY stuff, I'd be terrified of wearing large earings if I were a girl. Heck I'm already terrified of wearing a ring.