i could see that. its really not about the sex or preference, its about trust in information. that is something every relationship must contend with making this rather pedestrian
I get the feeling you think I'm saying this because of insecurities or something. I just think it's important to know what your partner likes and doesn't like. I'd feel pretty alone if I was with someone I couldn't express my desires to even if they can't fulfill them and wouldn't want my partner to feel that way.