Right, but with Matrix it's a learning curve just to get started. That's not to mention running a server either, discord makes that whole process much easier and done in a few buttons, and you don't have to worry about uptime or any of that unlike self hosting, and it's free. That makes it even harder to get friends onto the platform who don't care about any of that, despite how good it may be considered to be.
It is absolutely a good messaging app. Valid place to host a community? Debatable, sure. In fact it's so good, that Revolt is almost a direct copy of it as shown above.
Whether that makes it a good app to use is another matter. Don't know about the spyware, or it's economic sustainability, but it has been around for years and years so it must be doing something right in terms of being sustainable, because it has sustained itself.
Regardless of Discord though, the biggest issue with moving platforms is getting people to move there. It's taken this long to get some of my friend group off of WhatsApp, and some still stubbornly stick to Facebook Messenger (true particularly at universities).
I honestly don't see how the idea of everyone getting an equal share is an extremist idea in the same vein as a racist ideology. I'm also unsure why you're being downvoted for pointing out the obvious there.
I know for MtF the temperature tolerance goes down because of physical changes. I'm sure the hormones change things mentally, whether you're aware of it or not. They're a big change.
This could really do with 2 less panels