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Europeans, where was your last trip to another part of Europe and how was it?
  • There are the town of Lecce and a few beaches that are worth discovering.
    In the summer there will definitely be things to do for a week, as there are many local festivals where one can enjoy local food (many festivals (sagre) are centered around a specific kind of food, like one for octopus, one for horse meat, ...) and listen and dance to traditional music (pizzica)

  • Europeans, where was your last trip to another part of Europe and how was it?
  • Periodically go from Belgium to Salento (Italy) to visit family.
    Sun, wind and sea (lu sule, lu mare, lu ientu) look and feel so good in the summer.
    The food even more.

  • Anyone else see so many pictures of pretty women that it makes them want to transition?
  • The one example I was commenting about is the tyre example. They sold more tyres to women after dropping the sexy girl on the ad. How much of a stretch is it to assume that these women were not the sexy ad's target audience because women used to be less (socially allowed to get) interested in cars?

  • Anyone else see so many pictures of pretty women that it makes them want to transition?
  • Ok I realise that I did not put the previous comment in the friendliest form, sorry about that !

    Your point is that the marketing choice of using beautiful women is dictated by the sellers' preferences rather that the buyers' one. In the apparent absence of evidence to support either hypothesis, you are willing to favor the former one.

    What I haven't said explicitly yet is that there is one argument that makes me find the latter one more likely in the absence of further evidence : the businesses that make their marketing choices based on customers' preferences will tend to survive more. kn our capitalist society, it makes sense to me.

    You gave one counter-example that is not strong enough to change my opinion as it can also be explained with the firm having poorly evaluated what their target audience was. They do say in the article that more women started buying tyres after the marketing change, which is indeed not the audience targeted with the sexy-girl ad.

    It does however a good job at disproving the affirmation "because everyone regardless of gender and age are biologically conditioned to look at them." to which you were originally replying, and I disagree with that affirmation as well. I just think your conclusion goes too far i the other direction, in the absence of further evidence.

  • Anyone else see so many pictures of pretty women that it makes them want to transition?
  • It's the salesmen who want the stall staffed with models, not the customers.

    Could you link the evidence-base of this though?

  • My Love-Hate Relationship With Lemmy – Gavi's Blog
  • Do they? The linked blog's biography is written with masculine pronouns.

  • Anyone else see so many pictures of pretty women that it makes them want to transition?
  • What marketing departments dominated by men think works is not the same thing as what actually works

    In this case, isn't it because the market evolved faster than they could keep up with? Probably there was a time where most of their customers were "macho men", so these adds would work in marketing.

  • Multilingual folks: what are some odd idioms in your language(s)?
  • This makes me think about the French "je m'en bats les couilles" (litt. "I beat my balls with it"). Some girls say it too, others say they beat their ovaries instead.

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  • the comment that ‘upset’ me in the context you are asking is the one where the guy calls me butthurt for disagreeing with his opinion

    This is not in the context they were asking though, this happened as a response to your rant.
    What some of us would want to have is documented examples of what caused you to write this post.

    In a comment you complained about nobody having "shared their experience in a meaningful way", but you haven't shared anything concrete either.

    In the post you said:

    I remember we could still have discussions about controversial topics without things getting ugly

    Yet to me things do not seem to have gotten ugly when you expressed a very controversial opinion in the "taliban" post. This is were concrete examples would help understanding your point.

    Some users did disrepect you about this issue in this post, and I definitely do not support that ! In the end, you are a teen getting bullied (probably by adults) for having an opinion, and this is wrong no matter how bad the opinion is.

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  • there isn't really much else you can do

    One could also do nothing. What are the insults supposed to achieve?

    some people kinda deserve to be called names.

    Are you arguing in favor of retributive "justice"? Isn't it exactly OP's shitty opinion that they get bullied for?

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  • what each post produced was really high quality

    I've only been participating in discussions on Lemmy groups for 3ish years, but I'm quite sure that never happened. There have always been good and bad posts, good and bad comments, civil and less civil users.

  • Protons inside, electrons outside. But why not the other way around?
  • Strong interaction is really designed as a baryonic thing, leptons have no color charge (which is another way to say that they transform as SU(3) singlets). Leptons do not interact with gluons.
    Not at tree-level anyway. See for example this list of vertices.

    At loop levels, it's possible to imagine an electron decaying into neutrino+W, then W into two quarks who can then interact with gluons, but as it's down a couple of orders in perturbation theory so probably much too weak to hold a nucleus together. Not an expert in particle physics so I do not know with certainty whether a couple-of-loops interaction can have a measurable effect.

  • Protons inside, electrons outside. But why not the other way around?
  • Electrons are not subject to the strong nuclear force that glues the protons neutrons together. This means that no attractive force would prevent electric repulsion to scatter a "electron nucleus".

    From a field theory perspective, the strong nuclear force is a SU(3) gauge interaction and the electron field transforms as a singlet under that SU(3)

  • What country are you from and do you call it 1) elementary, junior high, high school 2) elementary, middle school, high school, 3) primary, ???, secondary?
  • Following the title, I forgot the little ones, so in total we have
    - 3 to 4 years of maternal school (2,5 - 6 years old). Traditionnally only the last one was mandatory but this is currently changing so I don't know whether or not the whole of it is already mandatory for everyone
    - 6 years of primary school (6-12 years old)
    - 6 years of secondary school (12-18 years old)

  • What country are you from and do you call it 1) elementary, junior high, high school 2) elementary, middle school, high school, 3) primary, ???, secondary?
  • From (the French-speaking part of) Belgium, 6 years of primary and 6 years of secondary. Nothing inbetween as that's already 12 years. Secondary usually happens within the same school although there are two divisions within it:
    - programs are designed for three cycles ("degrés") of two years (D1, D2, D3)
    - teacher's diploma follow a division in two "degrés" of three years : teachers for the inferior one (DI) have a bachelor and teachers for the superior one have a master. In the near future the diploma's will change but the distiction is mostly going to stay

    In this latter sense, "inferior secondary" would be the equivalent to middle school and "superior secondary" the one for high school, although as I have explained it is not as separated as in the US, Italy, France or others. As someone who teach in the superior secondary "degré", I do usually introduce myself as a high-school teacher when talking to people from other countries.

  • [Ask Europe] People speaking languages with a small population on Lemmy, how do you deal with the dilemma of posting in English or in your other language?
  • True, but we are still excluding some people when we use it. By always writing in English one always excludes the same ones.

  • [Ask Europe] People speaking languages with a small population on Lemmy, how do you deal with the dilemma of posting in English or in your other language?
  • si l'UE décide un jour de parler une seule langue je suis d'accord avec tous les langues européenes sauf l'anglais.

    Si l'UE devait décider d'une seule langue, je pense que ça ne devrait pas être la langue nationale d'un état membre. Une langue construite comme l'Esperanto serait plus appropriée à mon avis, et aurait en tout cas plus de chance d'être acceptée par les différents états/peuples.

  • [Ask Europe] People speaking languages with a small population on Lemmy, how do you deal with the dilemma of posting in English or in your other language?
  • @cali_ash @Servais

    Why limit yourself to people that speak a certain language when it's irrelevant to the topic?

    Speaking english is also limiting oneself to people that speak a given language.

  • Which TV series intros do you not skip by choice?
  • I usually don't skip intros

  • Are votes meant to be secret?

    From the UI that pretty much copies Reddit's in the regard, it would seem that yes. However, the votes are actually not secret. Maybe they were when they were local, but now they are transmitted to the federated instances. From other platforms, like Friendica, one can actually see the votes as (dis)likes. I can see your votes.

    Because of Lemmy's UI, it is very easy to believe that the votes are secret, and many users probably assume they are. For example, I am quite sure the ones who use an alt from another instance to double-downvote do make that assumption. I think this fact should be disclosed in a clear way, at least in the instances' sidebar, if not in a banner.

    From there on, I see two possibilities:

    • embrace that the votes are not secret, and allow Lemmy user to optionally see them
    • make the votes actually secret

    As a Friendica user, who is used to like as a public appreciation mark, I am naturally in favor of the first option, but that is only my personal preference.

    If the second one is preferred, it means that the other admins should never receive the voters' identities. One should not trust the other admins to just not display them. In fact, I think "never trust the remote admin" should be an important rule in the fediverse, an instance should generally protect its own users rather than expecting others to do it in its stead.

    In that case, I think it would be appropriate that "Vote" should be an disctinct activity from "Like", and in particular one that cannot be federated with the authors name. Maybe it could be a private thing sent to the Group, who in turn sends a IsVoted activity? This is pure fantasy, I am not qualified to suggest an actual implementation, I just think it should be distinguished from other platforms' public likes.

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