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  • People on r/mtf really feel so comfortable talking about being in the military/vets and so many people are happy to engage with it. There's a special level of disgust I have for queer people in the military.

    It's reddit, so no surprise of course.

  • ::: spoiler spoiler There are lot of reasons the world gives us to hate being trans, I think even the most principled trans positive person is bound to feel it sometimes. I'm sorry it's been so difficult

    Being stealth for whatever the reason is fine, but maybe it doesn't all have to be hate and shame. Easier said than done, of course, but I think any trans person you've shown kindness to would want you to feel some of that kindness and understanding as well.

    To whatever the future brings!

  • I guess I'm also worried that dating another trans person would make my dysphoria even worse, maybe it's irrational idk😵‍💫

    Can I ask why you think that would be the case? A transmasc person's transition is quite different from yours.

    In my experience, t4t relationships haven't just been eliminating the initial transphobia worry, but they also provide an understanding that I don't think cis people will really have (through no fault of their own)