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I can’t believe I’m siding with the South Park guys here
  • It really just depends on where you work and your demographics.

    Young black male in rural city? Lol you're fucked. Attractive young white woman in dense urban center at trendy expensive restaurant? Absolutely crazy amounts of money.

    I've known people who graduate, get a job in the field they wanted and then quit and went back to serving because they fell into the right demos and location.

    The tipping floor is the lowest it can possibly be but the ceiling is extremely high. And it's largely based off unfair reasons.

  • I can’t believe I’m siding with the South Park guys here
  • Lol what the fuck is that petition, there is no way 4.5k people work at Casa Bonita who would be affected by it when they don't even have 350 staff.

    That means at least some part of the signatures are not employees but outsiders trying to speak for the employees.

    Which also means that they might not even represent many employees to begin with! For all we know 99% of workers don't want to go back to tipping.

    And going off the line at the bottom (although it is quite possible they are lying, management does lie often), it seems like that could potentially be the case. After all the article only identified two people who were upset.

    Of 256 employees, 93 were a part of the shift and only two said they were unhappy about it, management said at the time.

    The petition claims to have more than this but it also claims to have almost 5k signed on so it's pretty unreasonable.

  • MAO IS CANCELLED
  • The idea that Mao had regressive views on women should not be shocking in the slightest. Modern women's rights are really really recent developments across the world.

    One shocking fact I like to bring up is that women weren't even allowed to own their bank accounts till like the 70s/80s. My mom brings that one up when talking about how much things have changed since her childhood.

    But it's also not particularly relevant. People don't listen to Mao for his views on women's rights. It's the same way we don't dismiss electricity just because the society back then owned slaves.

  • Uyghurs and Falun Gong: Is it all bullshit?
  • The thing about Ughyurs is that there might be cultural repression that goes on in the area. There might even be instances of abuse and violence, one of the issues with even the best theoritical bureaucracies is that you still have to delegate tasks out and have some trust it won't be misused. There might be examples of low level officials who harassed a Ughyur family unfairly or put someone in remediation who wasn't an issue. It's more about the systems and overarching structure of the program that matters more.

    This is the same logic we should be using with any nation realistically. And from what we see of Xianjang, there doesn't seem to be much actual strong evidence of systemic abuse. We don't see systemic evidence provided by the west, we don't see it in reactions by nearby nations, we don't see it by the actions of these supposed victims. So where is it beyond a bunch of claims?

  • ... digital fentynal made by China.
  • There's a fun irony where when it comes to bigotry and racism it just "needs to be exposed to sunlight" and the "the free marketplace of ideas" but leftist ideas are brainwashing that need censoring.

    Huh, I wonder why those double standards exist lea-think

  • Culturally Appropriating Genocide
  • You can tell how bad this guy's discourse is because he has to use the term "cultural appropriation" and not just the much better fitting "appropriation" on its own because he doesn't understand what the words actually mean.

  • Redditor upset that special needs children can’t be “disciplined”
  • Weirdly enough I liked having the one on one aide. I was basically out of the running for friends in most of my classes anyway so having someone on my side that I could talk to and an adult that was basically guaranteed to step in when I was bullied was a positive IMO. A lot of special ed classes can get fucked though, disrespectful and treat you like an idiot who can't even remember your own name.

  • Xinjiang defies Western curbs as foreign trade hits record high, surges by 47%
  • Glad for them, the western efforts to sanction and blockade Ughyur trade was going to harm all the people there (as sanctions are basically always guaranteed to do). The West is well aware of this of course, this is why they use sanctions to "punish" opposition so it's sure strange they're willing to use that tool against the people they claim are being genocided.

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    [CW: chaser username] Hexbear: Not pro-LGBTQ+, the Israel of Lemmy instances
  • Why would an anti LGBT group want lots of support from LGBT+ members? Seems like an easy way to fall apart once you let the mask slip and you won't have any backup because all the other anti LGBT people would have left.

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    (Cw: Meat) Just 12% of people eat 50% of the beef in the US.
  • You say "address" as if they were able to appropriately fix the issue, rather than addressing it as a limitation of the study. Limitations are fine, I'm just trying to explain the big one here in an easier to understand way because the reporting makes it seem like it's a consistent 12% eating a shit ton of beef.

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    (Cw: Meat) Just 12% of people eat 50% of the beef in the US.
  • A lot of this reporting is a big misunderstanding of statistics.

    As the study says

    About 45% of the population had zero beef consumption on any given day, whereas the 12% of disproportionate beef consumers accounted for 50% of the total beef consumed

    Now just as a thought experiment, do you think that almost half of the US never eats any beef? No, of course not. But on any given day? Sure, quite possible. People's diets vary.

    A randomly selected person might have a McDonald's hamburger for lunch and a steak for dinner and be part of the 12% on the first day but then eat mushroom ravioli for lunch and pizza for dinner on the second day and be part of the 45%.

    And there might be certain demographics that are more likely to make up that 12% on a given day but that doesn't mean there's a particular nonchanging group of high consumers.

    I'm not going to dig into the study here but just as an example, let's say Dog Breed X is 1.5 times more likely to bark than Dog Breed Y is. You can't hear a dog bark and say "Ah it must be Breed X then!", you can only say "Ah, it's more likely from Breed X than Breed Y".

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    (Cw: Meat) Just 12% of people eat 50% of the beef in the US.
  • A lot of this reporting is a big misunderstanding of statistics.

    As the study says

    About 45% of the population had zero beef consumption on any given day, whereas the 12% of disproportionate beef consumers accounted for 50% of the total beef consumed

    Now just as a thought experiment, do you think that almost half of the US never eats any beef? No, of course not. But on any given day? Sure, quite possible. People's diets vary.

    A randomly selected person might have a McDonald's hamburger for lunch and a steak for dinner and be part of the 12% on the first day but then eat mushroom ravioli for lunch and pizza for dinner on the second day and be part of the 45%.

    And there might be certain demographics that are more likely to make up that 12% on a given day but that doesn't mean there's a particular nonchanging group of high consumers.

  • This is a pretty good some up of the difference between things as they appear to be and things as they really are.
  • I think that way about evolution sometimes. It's blitheringly obvious when you consider the two points

    1. There is a difference between parent and offspring and yet they also inherit traits
    2. Differences add up

    Both are easily observable in the natural world. The first one can be seen with babies "oh you have your mother's eyes" while also the baby not literally being the mom. The second one is used by walking where we cross a large distance one step at a time.

    And all you need is those two principles to come to the conclusion that the small yet inheritable differences between offspring will add up over a long period of time. The question to be asked isn't if it will happen but rather just what traits it happens to.

    And yet, it took humanity (and for many people still they refuse) millennial to grasp it. I'm looking at the process as so simple only from the lens of someone born after it was figured out.

  • Are you being antisemetic?
  • I think it's a good post honestly, main critique is that it feels accusatory like "I gotta teach you all to not be anti semitic because you currently are" ya know?

    But I'm not sure how to get rid of such a tone so maybe it's unavoidable. I totally agree with you though that this shit is messy and you need to be hyperspecific in criticisms.

  • Idk where else to post this but wanted to celebrate how much I've been improving in the past few years

    So like, I'm one of those live with parents no college super autistic basically unable to function on my own type of NEETs and a lot of places on the internet tend to be pretty hostile if you admit to that or try to be happy about "minor accomplishments" in their eyes so I just wanna share it here instead cause y'all so nice.

    Ever since the start of Covid I've been making really good progress on being more independent and taking care of myself and my body. Twice a week I go to the park now and just walk around (with plenty of sunscreen if course!) and I've been able to branch off of just junk food and eat more fruits and veggies. Like I never knew brocolli could taste so good with just a little bit of olive oil and seasoning. I even found a way to make some light money online filling out like, university studies and stuff. It's actually pretty good pay (it's a UK site and most of them are at/above UK min wage so even transferring to USD it's still well worth the time) but obviously not reliable enough to make as a job even if I wanted to. But having a little bit of money to myself to use as I want is a huge help.

    Also been looking into those Section 8 vouchers and trying to get on disability and maybe even be able to live at my own place near my parents. Even signed up for the local community college and got a little bit of financial aid. God bless the Pell grant, imma get myself some clothes I've been wanting maybe or anything else I can figure out how to paint as "necessary for my education" since it's just free money. I don't plan on getting a job either in the end even if I managed to somehow get a degree so imma just use it how I want.

    All in all I feel like I've been doing a whole lot better. I can see it in my parents face too, everytime I've looked at them since I was about 20 even I could tell they basically "gave up" on me but they seem so happy and supportive. It's actually kinda upsetting in its own right, makes me feel like I'm apparently of more value to them if I'm productive but I also know it's because they want me to have a good life and they've been trained by society to view that in a particular way so I'm not mad.

    Oh yeah also since my dad helped me get my legal name changed a bit ago, my classes will be the first time I'm out at some major thing like this getting to present as myself. I even felt bad about having to do this so late in my life but apparently I'm the average age of community college students at 28 so I might be able to fit in well! I'm used to lying about my life to cover up all the issues I have so I'm hoping I'll be able to fit in well enough. And if not, oh well fuck them anyway I suppose I'm good enough for me and that's what matters.

    Hell even smaller things I've been getting better at like getting used to the feeling of makeup on my face which when I first tried it a few years ago was too overstimulating.

    Thank you Hexbear for being such a great site that I feel comfortable talking about these embarrassing things. I love you all <3

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    What otherwise good games have bad/mediocre beginnings?

    The type of game that when you recommend it, you have to clarify they need to play a few hours before they'll understand.

    To me, many JRPGs have this problem. Xenoblade, Final Fantasy (14 especially), Tales, Kiseki, etc all take forever to get interesting.

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