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The issue here is the way the message is delivered. We as a society need to bring attention to the issue of safety for women and sexual assault overall and try to find solutions for it. I think there are examples of great ways to do that (bring attention to it I mean, no clue how to fix it), one that comes to mind is the whole movement that I think was called #metoo or something along those lines? I think it brought a lot of attention to this and it allowed me personally to understand better the depth of the issue of safety for women. It made me more aware, it made me reconsider many things and made me want to be helpful.

Today there was another post around where it was asked of women "if all men disappear for 24 hours without consequences, what would you do in that time". So many many answers were just "go party with my girlfriends and dress however I want and get hammered without feeling threatened" or something similar, and that post alone made the issue of safety for women so much clearer and stand out so perfectly than this meme, and more importantly the original question...

The problem is that this kind of discussion creates a barrier, it divides, it moves the discussion from the real issue, women's safety, to a wrong topic, are men as dangerous as a bear. In itself it's a question that promotes another type of sexism, it promotes fear, with the excuse of making a point and raising awareness. Instead of raising awareness it's muddling the waters in reality which is not the way anyone will be feeling safer in any way.

Damn, a post that makes sense... I guess I found the needle in the hay... Really well put.

Same here, Fenix 6 for a couple of years and definitely nearly as good as pebble, but I still miss the comfort and size of pebble. The screen is a bit better I think though and the battery seems to last me more but I barely use any of the fancy useless stuff like gps and what not.

I doubt the community that pebble built can be replicated by any other company... I really miss how simple it was to start creating software for the pebble and talking with other devs.

I've been trying to set my head in between these two opinions, the one being "as a man I'm saddened and unhappy to be included in the category where women feel safer with a bear than with me unjustly" and the other being "women have it so bad that this is the reality for them".

In such a case I feel like we have a couple of issues to resolve. The first one being the fact that sexual assault of different levels (not everything is rape or not, there's other ways to suffer it) is definitely a real issue that most women if not all suffer one way or another. The other issue is the fear of all men in consequence of it. This kind of bear/man discussion does two things in my opinion, bring the topic up to a point where it is talked about more openly (which is good) and also perpetuate the fear by generating this constant feel that unknown men equal danger (obviously bad, not only for men, but also removing any possibility of trust from women, one that might be lucky to not have had any sexual assault experience will be afraid of it by default).

This is a problem that we need to resolve together, both men and women of all kinds, the men saying "but I'm not worse than a bear, I would help you get out of the forest without expecting anything in return or attacking you", would need to bring any sexual assault to attention if they notice it, discourage and negate other men (friends or whatever) from wrong behaviors and help women that would need it. Also women should encourage the kind of men that would do that kind of thing, should help bring the gap of trust closer by thanking the men they know and feel safe with. Making a discourse of them against us would only create a bigger division and more sexism and I feel this kind of discourse gets lost when generalizations like this one happen with the bear and the man, despite the fact that it brings up such important issues as the unsafeness women feel with unknown men.

This is not meant to put down the importance of how women feel unsafe, it is by far more important to tackle the sexual assault topics than it is to tackle the fact that I'm considered worse than a bear by women that don't know me. And thinking of that is how I ended up siding more with the person that did the comparison, now, how could we do it in a better way, one that won't automatically move the conversation to "but not all men are bad"?

Edit: I want to point out that I don't mean now women should thank men for making them feel safe, that's like the minimum any person should do with others around, but when it comes to this kind of discussion, acknowledging that there are men trying to do good and not all would jump at the chance of raping someone is a good thing to bring up to avoid losing the importance of the topic by going sideways and off topic.

Yeah he worked in Microsoft before that and when he ended in Nokia the path was quite clear what it would be. But I've had the chance to talk with many engineers that were working at Nokia back in the day and the problems didn't start because of Microsoft.

Basically Nokia had the whole management divided between symbian, maemo, and windows mobile, and as they couldn't agree on a future path all the efforts were divided. Symbian was quite a disaster at the end and it wouldn't have gone far most likely, those that wanted to continue with it didn't have a clear view of the changes coming in the mobile world.

Maemo was great, really advanced, based on Linux, and working really well, maybe too advanced even, specially for your common users back then. The whole system was constantly put down and delayed and the first devices sold wouldn't even work as a phone, only the 4th ended up with mobile connection, which didn't help at all to make it useful (wifi was not as big as it is now) and sold.

Finally there was Windows Mobile which was still starting basically then and had far less strength, but with the support of Microsoft behind it it was easier to push it out. I don't understand why it still has such support when it comes to the UI, I personally never liked it and it felt too simplistic and boring, but the more options the better I guess. Of course once Microsoft managed to plant his own guy inside Nokia they managed to favor the balance towards Win mobile and the other two were left behind more and more.

So Microsoft was a key part in what ended happening but they were not the ones that put Nokia in trouble. That was a lack of direction in the management level.

Maemo was so much better than any os coming after it... Meego was in my opinion the wrong path to take. I still miss the N900, what an amazing device it was...

The french movie Titane, the plot sounded so weird I had to watch it, and it was far crazier than I thought... Somehow not the worst I've seen but damn it made me feel uncomfortable as hell.

I recommend you to watch one of the director's earlier movies, Dogtooth, that was the best movie he has made and I'm pretty sure anyone enjoying Lobster will like that one too.

Hear me out, a game of having a tea plantation, in space. Finally astronauts can enjoy a cup o'tea.

It's simple and quite short, and I'm not exactly sure why this is the first one that came to mind but here goes anyway https://store.steampowered.com/app/785790/WHAT_THE_GOLF/

There's also the https://goose.game/ which is quite fun and silly.

I'm sure I got more ideas but those were the ones that came into mind without checking.

Edit: realized this is for the deck, not sure if they are confirmed to work but I don't see why they wouldn't.

Yeah, I've been slowly moving towards using proton, testing it with the free account and I'm on the verge of getting the subscription. The addition of the notes app would make it so much better, I'd pay it right away.

It seems like a very reasonable policy.

Is there some way to handle setting a contact to have the chance to recover the account in case of someone passing away or being incapable of accessing the account before it is deleted?

The struggle is real, play or rest? But after years of training on sleep deprivation what is an hour more to finish just one more mission? :)

Wow thanks! Really need to try that one! Live tv is not my jam tho, I don't care much for stuff I can't choose when to watch.

Thanks a lot! I'll check what they have there!

Thanks for the info, I'll check that DNS proxy. But my issue is not geo blocking itself, I already passed that with VPN but they also require an account with a lot of details in order to watch the content. I have tried creating an account to manage it but without success and it felt too much effort, I'd prefer to find some alternative. Thanks anyway!

Yeah I have a VPN already and recently I've been considering changing mail and calendar and storage to proton and have my account there, but didn't check their VPN service yet.

Without the VPN I couldn't even get to try the playback, but with VPN I still need a way to circumvent their account requirements.

I did try, but I think the next step was an UK phone number or something... The thing is that they try as hard as possible to block it. And I just want a workaround for it, if there's any...

Snakes on a plane. I still haven't watched it but I had to get it just for XKCD...

Whiskey tho