Tommasi [she/her, pup/pup's] @ Tommasi @hexbear.net

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"Relationships with parents can be difficult, but mine aren't that bad, they tried to make me detransition and almost murdered me, but it could be worse

When I hope trans mega posters will support me doing risky behavior, but they instead insist that my behavior is risky

Is it risky to pierce your earlobe at home? Feels like every second girl I know did that in her teens, so it has to be pretty safe right?

Something nice happened today. I was out with a few friends and this random ass dude just comes up to us and starts taking part in our conversation like it's the most natural thing in the world. That's okay I guess but he starts to say some borderline bigoted stuff that definitely does not pass the vibe check.

I was about to head home anyway so I decide to just leave because I don't want to listen to it. I didn't really expect anyone to care or notice and just planned to head home, but after like 20 seconds my friends just left that guy and hurried to catch up to me. In hindsight it was kinda obvious they would do that rather than hang out with some creepy stranger, but in the moment it genuinely meant a lot to me, like seeing that these people actually notice me and care about me was such a comforting experience.

That's so insensitive by your family, no one should be forced to be the center of attention if they don't want to.

Something like formal trousers and a button up can look really cute and feminine with the right cut, but imo feels less intimidating to wear than skirts and blouses when you're with family who aren't that used to you being trans yet, so maybe something like that could be an option?

I'd love to at least try prog for a while, but idk how, it's more difficult to do get DIY than E is where I live, and getting it through a doctor is literally impossible

After a year, doing my estrogen injections are just a normal, mildly annoying part of life, and not super exciting like they used to be. I know it was bound to happen at some point, but still a bit sad.

Why are cigarettes deathly unhealthy when they're such a vibe?

Managed to fix my sleep schedule, then I woke up in the middle of the night from a nightmare and couldn't sleep and now it's fucked again

Even trying to see things from a lib perspective the data harvesting argument makes no sense to me. If you're worried about your data ending up in the hands of someone who could use it against you, a social media app from a somewhat hostile foreign country is way safer than local social media that sells all it's data to the state that actually has power over you.

The whole account is just rage bait meant to trick people into engaging by making them feel bad. Please don't let it affect you too much.

Good luck!

Not American, but from a western imperialist nation with a lot of similar incentives so I still relate to this a lot and spent a fair amount of time thinking about it.

Whenever I read public discourse I can't help but think my country is filled with insufferable, ignorant, smug selfish pricks who couldn't care less about other people's suffering. However, maybe this is a hot take, but does it really matter? Realistically you're never gonna make a difference anywhere else in the world. The people around you are what you have to work with, it's where you have to find like-minded people and organize and try to change minds and hopefully find friends and connections. You can go around and wish suffering on the people around you instead, but that's not going to achieve anything other than make people creeped out and not want to be around you.

It's also worth keeping in mind that violent, reactionary brainrot exists everywhere, and has plenty of political power most places. Western chauvinism is just the most uniquely destructive kind. You're probaly not going to be happy with the general population no matter where you go.

I have but people still rage in the text chat. Guess I could just mute that too

I tried playing marvel rivals with some friends and its kinda fun, but also reminded me why I stopped playing those types of games: so many people who can't take a loss without getting insanely mad

My knit crocheted panda is looking a lot more odd and scruffy than the stuff my sister makes, but that's okay, he's mine and I love him

1 year of HRT, let's fucking goooo!!!

Might write a bit about it later, but the short and sweet is that estrogen fucking rocks and idk how I ever lived without it

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