I've had a few experience with this and each was drastically different.
On one end, I reconnected with a friend I hadn't seen since high school and invited her out for dinner. We met and just picked up right where we left off. Every time I see her now, it's the same. I invite her to all my parties by default because she's a great person to hang out with. We're very much similar people and really enjoy each other's company.
On the other, I reconnected with an online friend I hadn't spoken to in a few years. It was nice to chat with him again but the more we talked, the more it was clear to me why we stopped talking in the first place. He was sort of controlling and jumped to a lot of weird conclusions and never communicated what he wanted clearly. We stopped talking regularly and while we'll say hi if we're online at the same time, we don't seek each other out for long chats.
There's no single uniform answer because they're people and unique. I've dealt with some powertripping gross mods who only use their positions to further the benefits to them and their friends. I've also had selfless, kind mods who take hits in order to further their communities. Most are somewhere in between. When I've been a mod, I've not been a saint, but I've also not tried to actively create harm.
Not only traumatic for the pregnant person, it also is prolonging the suffering of the child. Birth itself is thought to be pretty awful for a baby - being born and then immediately going into organ failure or otherwise being in extreme pain from birth defects that make you incompatible with life has to be miserable. It's literally being born to die. Stack on the fact that birth is expensive in the US and the parents will be required to provide some amount of medical care for a baby that's fated to die soon, then a funeral? He's absolutely ghoulish. If this is Christian love, give me hate any day.
Yeah, I got into a disagreement with someone in a thread once and for a year or two, they'd just message me at random times to yell at me and accuse me of making them suicidal. I eventually blocked them and should have done it sooner. Aside from that, most other messages were just people sharing in game names for multiplayer stuff and Animal Crossing dodo codes.
OP, thanks for being the sacrificial lamb here. Now I know never to ask a question about Windows if I don't want to hear irrelevant opinions from Linux snobs. Sorry you didn't get a lot of real answers.
Often people will say "If you know an autistic person, you know one autistic person" as a way to tell others that autism is a spectrum and we're not all the same. I think the same saying can be applied to nonbinary people. We're all different and how we relate to our gender varies. I know a bunch of other NBs and none of us are the same in our expression, pronouns, body feelings, any of that.
ACAB includes Paw Patrol