No, because this is an obvious and extremely common incel talking point that is so blatantly wrong and funny that it outs someone as an incel immediately.
What talking point? About how he obviously wouldn't be comfortable interacting in any way with a girl who rejected him? So simple human psychology is MuH InceL now. God, it's idiots like you that make the word meaningless like chuds with woke word.
is extremely common, and many people that were good friends before confessing manage to remain friends
In the lib Twitter world you live in perhaps. In the adult world, no. I don't know of any such case. But I know of cases where the person who tried to continue to "be friends" snapped and got depressed and made the situation worse.
If staying their friend is “torturous” why were you that person’s friend to begin with?
Because guess what, idiot, he was friends with her before these feelings started.
Not really. You somehow perceive refusal to start a relationship right away as a harsh negative and rejection of the person. That's not always the case. Have you not heard the "I need to get to know you better" rejection? Or rejections for fear of losing friendships and stepping into the unknown. Relationships are much more complicated than most people realize.
I think we're talking about different things. I think we need to separate the concepts of being persistent from being inappropriate, creating harm and discomfort. In the first case, both people are okay with it and have no negativity.
Just because I don't agree with your opinion? Wow, it's a new low even for libfem circlejerk here.
OP is not going to torture themselves by staying friends with a person they had feelings for lmao.
Maybe in your imaginary liberal Disneyland, yes. But reality shows otherwise. If he retains his feelings for her, he will suffer by her side. And by rejecting him, she's shown that she doesn't really need him. So the best thing he can do is distance himself from her.
I was talking about the fact that you think your father did a good thing by being persistent.
Because it is a good thing.
I know people who are happy in their arranged marriages
Who said my parents' marriage was a arranded marriage?
Well, I don't care what you thinks about my parents. They having the best relationship. Also, what's the deal with obsession with creeps and weirdos? I swear westerners see it in literally every single thing. Right down to courting someone you like.
Chasing after someone who has already rejected you is weird and creepy behavior.
Now read my post again. Where did I suggest the OP "chasing" anyone? On the contrary, I'm advising him to stay as far away from this girl as possible because she hasn't made even the slightest move that would leave him any hope. I didn't write that he should have asked for her to give him a chance. If she had the slightest sympathy and interest in him, she would have suggested it herself. God, this comment thread is cursed with west mentality.
What else would you call it? Maybe in the west, when one person respects another person but doesn't feel instant attraction and starts dating them anyway, it's bad, but in the rest of the world it's normal. A lot of wonderful couples are born that way.
That's where you're wrong, lol. We are not animals for whom attraction is something that arises instantly and is unchanging. Our relationship is evolving and progressing. We can make mistakes. It's funny to me to hear your misconceptions, because my own parents ended up together precisely because my mother gave my father a chance and he was persistent when they were friends. There's nothing crappy here. It's part of a healthy human relationship between people who really respect each other and maybe feel something, but haven't figured out what yet. But maybe from perspective of a western liberal with a soy reddit mentality it's bad.
Well there's a reason why this girl from his social circle rejecting him. Didn't even give him a chance. I don't know their whole situation, but I would hazard a guess that she has no sympathy for him, which means he's not good enough for her (from her point of view, of course). I think you, like those who disliked my post, don't understand my point.
My advice, remove her from your social circle and forget her. That girl obviously thinks that you're not good enough for her. Sadly a classic case nowadays, especially because of the effects of a toxic dating culture. Personally, I don't believe you can build a friendship with her after something like that, so it's best to forget about her. It's for your own mental health and well-being.
OP obviously wants a romantic relationship and intimacy with this person. No friendship is going to happen. It's useless advice and he will only be torturing himself unless he either gets mutuality from her or removes her from his life. Also
Keep being dependable and expect the same from them, and respect their boundaries.
Salad of lib words. Remind me of chatgpt advice, lol.
Bullshit. Nobody wants to die for shitty right wing ukranian regime.
try some critical thinking.
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Well, try it yourself, lib.