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Bussy?
  • That's interesting! I've only ever seen it as slang for boy and/or butt pussy. I will fully admit that you're correct in that these terms tend to fall along the heteronormative gender divide and I try to keep these explanations as gender neutral as possible (though there's only so much you can do with "boy pussy"), so I'll keep that in mind for the future. Thank you.

  • Bussy?
  • Disclaimer: this isn't really my thing, so I have kind of an outsider's understanding and may be incorrect. I'm sure someone will be happy to correct me if I'm wrong about something.

    Ok, let's break this down a little. First of all: boy pussy, or "bussy", is not an actual biological orifice that exists, as you may have guessed. Rather, it's a slang term meant to convey the metaphorical sexual concept that a male asshole - usually belonging to a sub/bottom or twink (but the term can apply to anyone willing) - has become an erogenous zone, possibly (depending on usage in dirty talk) that it will never again fulfill any other purpose.

    Naturally, since it is a BOY pussy, it's not something that you would find on a woman, so the man in this story, while having sex with his wife, let slip that he was fantasizing about having sex with someone else. This does not seem to be her issue, as she mentions that they are at least somewhat in an open relationship and so him having sex with another woman would not be out of the question. However, she seems to take offense at the idea that he is fantasizing about having sex with another man, which is not something they would presumably have discussed prior to opening their relationship.

    Hope this clears things up a little. Cheers!

  • Peepo
  • My paternal grandmother was the opposite of this - apparently she really wanted a grandparent nickname and didn't care what it was. So there's, IDK, 2 year old me running around and I saw she was wearing big old sunglasses, and I said, "Cool Dude!" And it stuck.

    Miss you, Dude.

  • Oh no.
  • Legit the first song I thought of. Hello, fellow old.

  • TIL that some people do not have an inner voice and think in different nonverbal ways.
  • Do you remember the last time you were talking to someone for more than a couple minutes? Maybe they were explaining something to you, or telling you a story. You might try to remember what they said later - you can't hear it, but your brain kind of recreates the sensation of having been spoken to even though your ears aren't receiving those sounds.

    That's what having an inner voice is like (to me, anyway) - it's remembering a conversation that you never actually had.

  • Ripperonis
  • No, that's potage. You're thinking of a mixture, often of incongruous elements.

  • Choices choices.
  • I had originally written that, but I went and looked it up and it actually is "this". ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • Choices choices.
  • DREAMS ARE MADE OF THIS, WHO AM I TO DISAGREE

  • Yeap, it is
  • It's also an autism thing, though there is some considerable overlap there so you could be forgiven for not knowing.

    Source: it's me, I'm the autist

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  • FLEENTSTONES?!

  • Miami Connection (1987)
  • Only through the elimination of violence can we achieve world peace.

    cue montage of main characters cutting dudes apart with swords

    Y K Kim really just went all in and it's hilarious.

  • Helldivers 2 Players Express Frustration On Steam As It Will Soon Require A PSN Account
  • At the bottom of the article, under "Can I opt out?":

    If you choose to opt out, please note that on March 5th, 2024 you will lose access to Cross Progression, My Rewards, and RED Forums, and all connected data will be permanently deleted.

    Again, it's not a deal breaker for me, and not nearly as bad as needing an account to even play, but I felt it was at least worth bringing up.

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  • Where is @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world? I guess I'll have to be the change I want to see.

  • Helldivers 2 Players Express Frustration On Steam As It Will Soon Require A PSN Account
  • it's optional for some cosmetic rewards

    And also CrossPlay...

    Don't get me wrong, it's better than requiring the account to play the game, but it's still kind of a disappointing move.

  • Black Kansas City teen Ralph Yarl sues white man who shot him for ringing the doorbell
  • You sound like you'd be a blast to hang out with. I mean that genuinely.

  • Anyone else?
  • But she was a nag, so on the list she goes.

    /s

  • the struggle
  • [not a meme] anyone I should add?
  • Brennan Lee Mulligan and, by extension, Sam Reich.

    edit: to be fair, a lot of the Dropout cast seem like pretty great human beings as well (Emily Axford comes to mind, plus she frequently played opposite Adam Conover in the series Adam Ruins Everything which is both entertaining and horrible)

  • [not a meme] anyone I should add?
  • I'd love to be proven wrong (because he had a pretty big impact on my worldview in my mid 20s and he's got a wonderful singing voice), but the last I heard of Daniel he had been accused of grooming. (Warning Reddit link, but I did find a host of articles by searching "dan avidan controversy" in case you don't want to give Reddit traffic).

    Sorry. Like I said, I'd love to be proven wrong. He seemed like a really cool guy.

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