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For transgender people, now living in the United States amounts to living in enemy territory, and putting their agency to sleep, at least for the next four years.
  • I'm fortunate enough to be in a position to leave the US, unless they somehow lock borders for us in the first few months. Feel like everything I've worked for here is one step sideways two steps back. Can't do it anymore I'm burnt out and it's getting more dangerous every day

  • Starbucks strike in Los Angeles, Chicago, and Seattle expanding to Columbus, Denver, and Pittsburgh
  • I don't know about the other locations but in Seattle the reserve is striking. That location is HUGE, often has a line stretching around the block, and can get through a few people a minute. Starbucks is losing bonkers money on that location striking this time of year

  • magic box rule
  • Excitedly getting monologued to about niche things that are like magic to me is the best. Learning just enough about someone's interest to use all the words wrong though is what really gets me going

  • What am I doing with my life?
  • I did what I was "supposed to" until about 3.5 years into college. Then I dropped out, bumbled around trying to find meaning in what jobs I managed to sporadically have, and spent time in my marriage. In my early 30s now, newly divorced, realized I fell into doing what I was supposed to again, and I'm done with it

    I'm moving to another country, I'm liquidating retirement to pay for college. In some ways it feels like I've lost so much but in other ways it feels like I get a second shot at the life I want and this time I'm a lot wiser

  • everything's going according to plan
  • I consider $100k to be minimum wage in Seattle. It was just enough to not be constantly money stressed as long as I was living modestly. I could see doctors, invest in hobbies, have choices in food, build savings/retirement. Could not eat out every day, buy a house any time soon, or impulse buy particularly expensive stuff. Any time I made less than $100k here I felt like I was always two steps behind, at about that salary my life stopped focusing on scraping by. I make more now and I feel like I'm actually thriving here. Still quite a difference in what I'd consider to be middle class though like there's no way I can get a house here and I'd for sure be much worse off if I had kids

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    Ms. ArmoredThirteen @lemmy.zip
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