As much as Reddit sux because of the company's policies or mod problems etc., Lemmy is equally as bad.
Shadow banning is rampant on both platforms for instance. The biggest problem is that the people in charge of subs, or the instances, are incapable of governing -maybe not the best word- and don't understand words. It's a complete shit show everywhere.
Where have all the edgy and factual comments gone? Victims to mod bias and their political leanings. In some instances, they don't understand what they are reading, or don't like it, and ban everyone and remove posts like they are getting paid for bigger numbers.
It looks like you don't really use the fediverse much at all. Not sure why you're so bothered?
The joy of this type of platform is that if you don't have a place to post your stuff you can just make your own. You will then have the ability to control space just like the others can control theirs.
So what you want is a space where anyone can post anything with no moderation? So make it?? I don't understand your issue here. Is it only acceptable to you if you can go on any page you like and write anything you like?