AITA For calling my girlfriend an alcoholic?

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/throwra_centepede on 2023-07-27 15:51:56+00:00.

My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. She’s had a traumatic upbringing, and has taken this time to really feel everything and try to heal.

In her efforts to do so, she drinks every day that I’ve known her. Very rarely will she not drink. Most of the time it’s only 1-2 cocktails. But it’s every night. And sometimes she will have more and get drunk during the week.

I tried to point out that the frequency of it is a bit concerning, and she just said “I work over 50 hours a week. I’m exhausted. I should be allowed to relax after work”

Then she started to get into medication. She went through 3 doctors to get them to prescribe her ADHD meds. And she takes too much. She will take the prescribed amount, and a bit of another pill throughout the day. She also drinks on her anxiety meds. Which isint too frequent.

Anyways, one day, she was really just getting to me. And I called her an alcoholic. She said to me “You do K, and drink, and party too. Why are you being a hypocrite ?”

Yes I do partake in party favors, but it’s a few times a month. And I only drink on the weekends. Not every say.

Am I wrong for calling her that?