My wife is a costume seamstress for theater and did costumes for a movie once with Dafoe. She said he was very polite and a tad eccentric, but in a nice/funny way. She did have to take his clothing measurements. Said she can confirm the rumors.
Ha we used to have a wood carved
penis in college. It was awarded to the guy who was being the biggest dick and they had to keep it as a reminder of their shame