Last weekend my girlfriend and I went out for a date night to the club where we first met! Bought new dresses, got all dolled up, really went all out, it was amazing! We had drinks and danced our asses off, and there were several girls who came up dancing with us and not so subtly making moves for more. We were totally wrapped up in each other though, and we were all over each other at our seats. Things got pretty heated, and the naughtiness of being in public was so delicious (plus we were both pretty tipsy at the time), she ended up fingering me to orgasm right at the table! I get a little loud when I come, so she muffled me with a kiss right when it happened, if just to keep me from screaming out in the middle of the club. I feel like we got away with it pretty well, but we were definitely getting smiles and thumbs up from a few people who caught what was happening. After that we decided to stop pushing our luck and went home for some privacy for the rest of the night. Absolutely amazing time all around!
This weekend was much more tame, I made us a nice dinner then we took a nice night walk just people watching and enjoying each other. I also introduced her to my sister, she's the first one in my family I've opened up to about being in a relationship with a woman. She's super supportive and it went really well, they really seemed to get along! I'm working my way up to telling my parents and this was a big step
Dang you and the gf are really going all out, and I continue to root for you. I'm envious that you have such great physical and personal chemistry. I'm so glad to hear your sister is cool with it; all the best with your parents!
I wonder if I'd be on the same path with J if he lived locally. I've never been in a relationship with another man before…
Thanks, I really lucked out meeting her, we're having such a great time! I'm still winging it and trying to figure things out as I go, but these past couple months have been so great with her! I hope you and J can make it work, it sucks that you're so far from each other. But hey, if the feelings are there, I bet you guys can make it work!
I wonder if right now it's easy to have this intense connection and physical attraction because we live far away enough that anything more than fwb is impractical. And frankly a hunky otter bottom vers fwb I can see every month or two, who shares a career path and other interests, would be awesome!
Haha I can definitely see that, if a relationship is impractical because of distance, then you can really lean into the immediate, consequences-free fun! No need to try to force anything, just enjoy! I definitely wasn't expecting to find a relationship right away when I started opening myself up to that part of my sexuality, life gives us wonderful surprises sometimes!