Bethesda says most of Starfield's 1000+ planets are dull on purpose because 'when the astronauts went to the moon, there was nothing there' but 'they certainly weren't bored'
To give an impression of what it’s been like for me:
I had a quest where I needed Iron. I found a random planet that had it, and picked a spot in the middle of the scan readouts. Arrive, looks like a barren rock - but that’s fine because I only wanted rocks. However, I see something in the distance, and check it out. On the way, I find a wandering trader taking her alien dog for a walk, and sell some stuff weighing me down. I find a cave, where a colonist is hiding out with a respiratory infection - and am able to help them get out as a little mini-quest, though the infection spreads to me.
I come past a little mining installation, where I find a bounty hunter that tells me of a bounty nearby she’s offering to split with me. We do so, fighting a base full of raiders to get to their captain, and I finally decide to leave.
The key here is, I don’t think any of those quests are amazing - they’re likely very dynamically generated. But they’re also not fun to “seek them out” - just to come across them in some other mission, like trying to make an outpost or mining for stuff.
I mean, I can't even argue against that. Some people find some forms of work fulfilling, and even switch to games because their own jobs don't actually give them that feeling of fulfillment.
Monster Hunter is a prime example of a game that sets such elongated goals that it's regarded as a "grind-heavy" game - but its players like the grind. Heck, the entire space simulator genre often involves quite a lot of "Space Truck Simulator" gameplay, where you're just engineering good ways to ferry cargo around.
Which is not to say that's what Starfield aims for. From what I've played, it's closer to Sea of Thieves, having adventurous interruptions - where you start a boring, routine mission to bring Sugar from one merchant post to another, but then get ambushed by a skeleton ship, then a giant shark, then find a map to a buried treasure nearby.
Half the reason I play Elite is space trucking. I'm only raising my empire rank to get the largest ship... in order to space truck better. The Fed Corvette I plan to make a combat vessel, but the Cutter will be my space truck.
I found that flow of the game works a little bit better if you just don't fast travel at all. I played a lot of Elite and it gave me a little bit of Elite vibes when I just walk to my ship, go thru inside it and sit down. Then I take off "manually" using the button and jump to the target system by manually targeting it and press the jump button.
What Bethesda can do better is to just mask the loading with a flight animation, for example when you're taking off from a planet the loading should be replaced by an animation where you're going out of the atmosphere. And when you're jumping between star systems, the loading should be replaced by something similar to Elite when we're jumping through the witch space.
All in all, my experience with Starfield has been fine. I loved the weird stuff happening when you're just fucking around. Although the main quest has taken a step back with their sense of urgency, compare it to previous Bethesda games, where there's a big stake going on that pushes you to at least complete the main quest once. In Starfield there's no such sense of urgency.
It seems like Bethesda is leaning heavy on their sandbox side, just letting people go around and do stuff.
With optimized settings from the HUB YouTube channel, my FPS never went below 60.