Reminds me of a kid in college who shared how his church friends (not the pastor) would spank him raw and play a game where they touch each other's dicks to see who got hard.
I had a friend when I was like 10 who wanted to play the dick-touching game. I remember him saying "it's OK, we know we're not gay." I didn't even know what "gay" meant at that age but I knew I didn't want to play.