No. While people have the freedom to call themselves whatever they want, I also reserve my own freedom to call them whatever the f*** I want. It works both ways. At least it should.
Ultimately, it's a courtesy. Like finding out if the James you just met prefers James, Jim, Jimmy, Jimbo, their middle name or a completely different one because the uncle they hate was also a James. We do this in various parts of our dealings with people, it's part of the oil that greases the wheels of human interaction. You can chose to be discourteous but you may well find people chose to not have anything to do with you.
what is a singer? a runner? a painter? Do I have to win a marathon to be runner, or can I be a runner and run a mile a week at 5mph? If you see me running that mile, am I not "the runner over there?"
Regarding your own freedom, if someone says "My name is Elizabeth, you can call me Liz, Lizzie, Liza, Eliza... just not Beth please," and you go "Ok BETH." - yeah, that's your freedom to do that, you're still an asshole.
You can call anyone what you want. You have that freedom like anyone else. Like everyone else you can be considered a extremely rude and not nice if you dead name or miss gender.
hahaha seems to me like the dude who's terrified of trans people is more of a snowflake than the people who make fun of him for being such a miserable person
That we must comply with everybody's whims and thus let men beat women in female categories of sports, allow doctors to maim kids just because they think they're trans, and a lot of similar crap.
So you think trans people are icky and don't understand what's going on.
Have you ever talked to a trans person? You should try educating yourself on the subject instead of rejecting a whole group of people based on vague feelings. There are no men in women's sports and children are not usually subject to gender affirming surgery.
I'm not telling you what to do, I'm suggesting what you should do. Because you condemn people for things you don't seem to comprehend.
There are no men in women's sports. Trans women are not men. You don't get to compete in pro sports as a trans person without HRT, after which trans women don't have a statistical advantage over cis women athletes. You make it sound like I, a cis man, could just declare myself a woman and go for it. That is not how any of it works.