Congratulations on landing yourself in a good place. I won’t even try to tell you that you may simply not notice them putting up with shit.
That’s not everyone’s experience, and you’re not being helpful or compassionate with that comment. The opposite, even. You aren’t the victim here, bro, sit down.
Check their post history for their little rant about trans people. It's elucidating. He's just another alt-right shit heel. I'm surprised at how many are on Lemmy.
Edit: I'd love to know if this guy's kids describe their childhood as happy once they're adults. My money is on no.